Help a Friend

It has been 10 years since the first sign of health concerns. In 2016, a co-worker noticed a lump on my neck. In 2020, I finally visited a doctor and had discovered the nodule on my thyroid. It was also discovered that I had pre cancer cells in my cervix. When asking multiple doctors if the two had anything to do with one another, I was told no. When I asked which was of most concern to deal with first, I was instructed to have my uterus removed, leaving my fallopian tubes to avoid perimenopause. The nodule on my thyroid to worry about later since the biopsy came back as benign. Ironically, I had the HPV vaccine when I was younger. After I had my uterus removed, I was extremely depressed and realized I had made a terrible mistake. I then came across a great read about how and why you can avoid surgery, how both of my discoveries had absolutely everything to do with one another, and still can heal to reverse cancer and symptoms. In 2024, I learned that I now have more than one nodule on my thyroid.

After making the move to FL, I was full force into my healing journey which forever changed my life. I started homeschooling my children, opened a franchise wellness business with a local brand and operated for a couple years. Started attending a local non-denomination church, and gave my life to Christ, serving the church for a few years. 

When the separation with my ex started, the business was too much to carry. I attempted to revamp my brand and business plan. I became independent, which quickly came to an end pending the divorce in 2024 with the separation beginning the entirety of that year. 

My focus on wellness, good health and healing was completely forgotten about as survival was my focus. Saving grace moment when our Church had a car donated to us.

It's been almost two years since the divorce and I have been working two full time jobs to maintain providing to my children. I have been a Community Care Health Worker by day and was serving by night. When I landed my dream job teaching Cosmetology in the evenings, transportation expenses and travel time became an issue. I recently had to leave my dream job and get back behind the chair locally to offset the travel expenses and regain some time for rest and sleep, and be more present with my children. 

Emboldened by The Most High to create this webpage and share my story. I have put this off for long enough, now trying to practice my best at trusting and obeying. My pride surely got in the way of doing this sooner. I chose to make my own webpage, rather than sharing raised funds for fees from other hosting sites. Instead of selecting one of Facebook's multiple choices of foundations for donations during a birthday, please consider supporting my family and I on our healing journey.

I intend on using any donations towards necessary medical needs. I am pending a few surgeries and procedures, with very limited to none, insurance coverage, time and funds to begin. You can expect weekly updates to bring you along this healing journey, and prayers are mostly appreciated.

The surgeries needed include Septoplasty, to repair my deviated septum. I need to have Mandibular Osteotomy to correct my micrognathia. In order to have that, I need to first complete treatment and correct my teeth with braces. My goal is to save the Thyroid Lobectomy as a last resort to avoid any potential surgery complications or risk of losing my voice. I will do what I have to do, but first trying all other options to heal and reverse the symptoms I am experiencing. To be completely transparent, I have recently not been good at putting to practice the natural and holistic remedies as I have been more concerned about keeping a roof over our head and food on our table. 

I am 35 years old, my birthday will soon make me 36 on June 15th.

I live in Spring Hill, FL since 2021 previously growing up in Franklin Park, IL. I am a single Mother to Nicholas, Age 17 and Angelina, Age 16. Both children from the same distant father who resides in IL where we separated when the children were ages 1 and 2. 

Recently divorced, costing me the relationship with Step Daughter of 8 years, as well as a few fur babies. 

I am the older half-Sister to 4 siblings. 3 from my Mom, 1 from my Dad. 

My Mom and Dad divorced when I was 1 years old. 

I have 2 Step Sisters from an early portion of my life 

from my Mom and ex Step Dad. 

I am a Grandma's girl, especially to the one who is no longer with us, one who is in assisted living in IL, both being care providers helping to raise me. One Grandfather who passed on before I was born. The other Grandfather around for earlier stages of my life, passed away years ago, with a partially distant relationship due to the estranged relationship between him and my Mom. I was very close with all of my extended family growing up, especially my cousins. After I had kids, I seemed to alter my perspective on closeness with family. After losing a cousin who was 21 when he passed on and I was 20, my father's side of the family split up. My cousin was a best friend to me for almost all of my life. I was blessed with 21 cousins and since moving to FL, I am unfortunately not in contact with a single one.

I got involved with a very not so good relationship in 2016. Partying with him every weekend and during year 2020, I realized what was happening to me, and learned my family and I were very much on our own. When I chose to become sober, my ex and I moved to FL. When we had a going away drive by parade, my immediate family and Grandma were the only ones who showed up for us, while my extended family did not only not attend but also said nothing to me about it. It seemed to me I had lost the relationships with them.

I share this part of my story not to knock anyone, as I sincerely have unconditional love for all, but to share the reality of my solitude, that my children have also suffered from. Grateful for the church family God has blessed us with, they were involved at a very crucial time of our lives fulfilling needs that were long overdue.

I became a Licensed Cosmetologist since 2020, I previously taught Preschool for 5 years, volunteer coached many youth Sports with Cheerleading being the most consistent for over 6 years. I was pretty involved in the community that I grew up in. I was a server and attended Business classes for a short period of time, leading me to my dream of pursuing Cosmetology.

Our God is so good, and so awesome. 

If there is anything I know, it is that prayer works!

Thank you for being here.